Lean on faith, not fear

The diagnosis of breast cancer in August 2025 came as no surprise since my mother had had it 26 years earlier. What shook my world was the three operations I had in quick succession and the ups and downs which followed.

An older course mate told me to masturbate

Last year, a course mate who is at least 20 years older than myself talked about his masturbation and porn obsession in video calls and text messages to me. He even told me to masturbate, which made me even more uncomfortable.